I have had times where I just cannot stop dwelling on something. Ex: you just were divorced. You think you are healed.. but some romance comes on t.v. and it makes you hurt.. physically hurt because you shouldn't be divorced. Or this can be emotional hurts like anger, resentment. Touchy about your past: Reminders of the past or discussing the past get you upset. Hard to forgive: Some things are just hard to forgive. I know women who have been cheated on and they just cannot get over it. And let's be honest, that is a hard wound to bare. Don't always feel loved: Having a hard time accepting others love, or feeling their love, or accepting the Lord's love.